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  • 3 Ways Individual Counseling Can Help Your Marriage


    Even happily married couples can hit obstacles along the way. When this happens, couples can either go it alone and try to work through their issues themselves, or they can seek the guidance of a trained and experienced marriage counselor. While some couples feel their problems should be kept private, many more are finding the value of seeking help from an impartial and nonjudgmental third party. Even if your partner isn’t willing to join your, there are things  you can work on individually that will help your marriage.

    Here are 3 ways individual relationship counseling can help your marriage.

    1. Identifying Behavioral Patterns

    Most of us are aware of our partner’s behaviors but unaware of our own. And, most challenges faced by spouses is the result of the patterns between them. But when you only see half (or less) of the dysfunctional patterns, the problems in the marriage can seem confusing and overwhelming.

    A therapist is trained to help individuals recognize their own negative patterns and how they manifest in a relationship. The result is both partners are empowered and able to take a step back during conflicts as they occur, preventing escalation.

    As a bonus, a therapist can also point out the strengths and resources she finds in your relationship so you can leverage and learn how to nourish them.

    1. Change at the Root Level

    Once your therapist has helped you identify negative patterns, he or she can then help you understand why they are happening and assist you in changing them. Most behavioral patterns are formed and ingrained when we are very young – before we become self-aware and before we’ve met our significant others.

    Understanding why your partner reacts a certain way can create empathy and help communication. Once you’ve laid this solid foundation, your therapist can give you specific adjustments that can change your relationship for the better.

    1. Deeper Intimacy

    A therapist will not only tailor changes based on your unique dynamics as a couple, he or she will help you practice the adjustments and encourage you to remain vigilant and consistent. The result is a deeper intimacy and a deeper understanding of each other with a renewed commitment to meet each other’s needs and desires.

    While you may first feel embarrassed discussing marital problems in front of a stranger, ultimately a marriage counselor can bring you both to a more fulfilling phase of your partnership.

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